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Summary
The central move is to look at suffering directly — not to wallow in it, but to see that what deserves fear is the cause rather than the pain.
The mechanism named is feeling, craving and clinging, which burn without the person noticing, and which is why fleeing produces more.
The tools brought in are the Four Noble Truths, dependent origination, the eightfold path, ānāpānasati, satipaṭṭhāna and vipassanā.
Key points
Suffering is the result, not the enemy
Fighting the result instead of the cause is why people suffer the same thing repeatedly for a lifetime.
Fleeing tightens the loop
Pushing away is a form of holding on, which is what dependent origination sets out in sequence.
The place to intervene is between feeling and craving
Feeling arises unbidden. The gap before wanting is where attention does its work.
The end of suffering is not escape from the world
The conclusion is to live in it with attention, steadiness and understanding, rather than withdraw.